This doesn't relate to things eco, but we were amused by it in the Deco office and have wildly differing views on a few of the faux pas..
Anyway, a flooring company has done a survey of 1009 British adults to find out what they consider the most annoying things house guests do.
Top of the list is using a mobile phone at the dinner table (we're all agreed on that) and apparently 77 per cent of those questioned don't like it when guests ask for the wifi password. Well, it does suggest the guest is anticipating being bored and needing to access YouTube Fifa videos...
Third on the list of top irritants is people wearing shoes indoors..and this is where I profoundly disagree. Indeed when I go to someone's house, particularly in the evening and it's not raining and my shoes aren't covered in mud, and I'm asked to take off my shoes, I feel like turning round and heading for home again. I don't want to have to spend the evening in my socks, I find it disempowering to be shoeless in a social gathering and I think it's rude to ask people to take off their shoes at the door.
I mean, let's imagine a posh party and a woman arrives at her hosts' door wearing beautiful high heels which complement her dress and generally make her look terrific, not to mention taller. To expect her to remove her lovely shoes and ruin the look of her outfit for the non existent possibility of damaging the hosts' carpets is unreasonable. Sure if shoes are filthy, take 'em off. But if you're so precious about your carpets, really, don't ask anyone to come round to your house.
Carrying on, we don't like visitors to look into our bedrooms without permission - we feel it's an invasion of privacy. And we hate people opening our fridges and peering inside. I must say, I'm with the survey on that given that my fridge is always pitifully empty bar that lone rotting courgette on the bottom shelf.
When it comes to home entertaining, nearly a quarter of us say we expect guests not to arrive empty handed - a bottle of wine really is de rigeur, though if people are coming for lunch, we don't feel so strongly about it and only three per cent of those surveyed said they'd expect a guest to arrive with a gift.
Apparently 22 per cent think it's very rude if you're a guest and you turn down food you're offered. And if you're staying with people for a few days, beware helping yourself to food! Eighty eight per cent of people questioned say they'd think it incredibly rude if a guest is helping him or herself to the contents of the biscount tin uninvited.
Those top 10 faux pas in full:
Being on your phone over lunch / dinner
Asking for the Wi-Fi code
Wearing shoes on the carpet
Looking in bedrooms without permission
Looking inside the fridge without asking
Turning up to a dinner party without a gift
Helping yourself to food without asking
Putting your feet on the furniture
Turning down food when asked
Bringing around a pet without asking first